M · RKobe Family Memorial

Tombstone unveiling and celebration of life

Mashilo Reuben& Nnanabo RoseKobe

1945–2023  ·  1947–2021

With love and gratitude, the Kobe family invites you to honour two lives of service, the family they built and the legacy they left behind.

DateSaturday, 26 September 2026
TimeProgramme begins at 08h00
LocationSouth Gate Lodge, Polokwane

Their lives were a blessing. Their love was our foundation. Their memory will remain with us forever.

A promise kept for almost fifty years

30June 1971Phokeng, Rustenburg

On 30 June 1971, at Phokeng in Rustenburg, Mashilo Reuben Kobe and Nnanabo Rose Kobe made a solemn commitment to love and remain with one another until parted by death.

They remained true to that commitment for almost fifty years, until Rose passed away on 23 January 2021. Together, they built a home founded on love, faith, education, service and commitment to family. Mashilo served through education and Rose through nursing and healthcare.

Although death separated them from one another and from us, the life they shared remains part of our family’s story. Their values continue to shape who we are, and their love continues to hold us together.

The family they built

Their love lives through the generations.

Mashilo and Rose were blessed with four children and eight grandchildren. Their family remains the greatest expression of the love, commitment and sacrifices that defined their life together.

01

Mokoti Archibald Kobe

Their firstborn son, who passed away on 5 August 2005.

02

Tshepho Humphrey Kobe

Married to Ramokone Rachel Kobe.

03

Maemo Raynold Kobe

Married to Refilwe Nkati Kobe.

04

Itumeleng Mokgadi Kobe

A beloved daughter and part of their continuing legacy.

Mashilo and Rose Kobe with their children during the family's early years
Building a family, one memory at a time
Mashilo and Rose Kobe seated outdoors with their children
Growing together through the years
Rose Kobe with her children during the family's early years
A home filled with love and care

Lives devoted to serving others

One taught and guided minds. The other cared for and comforted people.

Mashilo Reuben Kobe dressed in his church attire
Mashilo Reuben Kobe

Our beloved father · Affectionately known as Papa Oupa or Bra Ru

Mashilo Reuben Kobe

6 July 1945 – 17 October 2023

Mashilo Reuben Kobe was born at Kraanspoort Mission in the Louis Trichardt district, now known as Makhado. He was the fifth-born of six children born to the late Ngwako Reuben Jack Kobe and Mokgadi Evelyn Kobe.

He attended Stefanus Hoff Myer Primary School, Ratau Primary School, Emarentia Geldenhys School and Hwiti High School, completing his matric through correspondence. He obtained his Higher Primary Teachers Certificate at Bethesda Normal College, later graduated through UNISA and obtained a Management Diploma from Rand Afrikaans University.

Before becoming a teacher, Mashilo worked as a clerk at H.C. Boshoff Sending Hospital. It was there that he met Rose, whom he later married. His education career took him from teacher and Head of Department to principal, examiner, English specialist and mentor.

Even after retiring from public service in 2000, he continued teaching, facilitating and leading schools. At Happy Day Private School, he helped secure Umalusi registration and improved the Grade 12 pass rate from 27% to 79% in 2010.

He is remembered as a husband, father, grandfather, educator and community leader whose life was built around service, learning and responsibility.

Portrait of Nnanabo Rose Kobe
Nnanabo Rose Kobe, affectionately known as Koko Mama

Our beloved mother · Affectionately known as Koko Mama

Nnanabo Rose Kobe

2 April 1947 – 23 January 2021

Nnanabo Rose Kobe was born at Tshwara Village in Phokeng, Rustenburg. She was the fourth-born child of the late Rantikwane David Senne and Ntobo Suzan Senne. She was baptised and confirmed at the Lutheran Church in Sarona.

Rose began her primary education at Moremogolo Primary School and completed her secondary education at Bafokeng School. She then trained as a nurse at Groot Marico Hospital and Groothoek Hospital.

She devoted her working life to nursing and healthcare, continuing to serve patients and families until her retirement from Mediclinic in 2019. She cared for people not only through her profession, but also through the kindness, warmth and devotion she showed at home.

Through her marriage, she became a devoted member of the Uniting Reformed Church in Southern Africa. She is remembered as a loving wife, mother and grandmother, for her commitment to healthcare, and for the quiet strength with which she served others.

Places where she served
  • Groot Marico Hospital
  • Maandagshoek
  • Philadelphia Hospital
  • Tsimanyane
  • Moganyaka
  • Groothoek Hospital
  • Hellen Franz Hospital
  • Polokwane Provincial Hospital
  • Mediclinic Polokwane
  • Ga-Kibi Clinic
  • Grace and Hope Special School

In his own words

“Please do not forget to tell people who I am.”

In 2012, Mashilo sent his son Maemo a biography that he wanted to be read at his funeral. When the time came, Maemo honoured that request. His own words preserve his identity, ancestry, faith and message to his children.

“Ya ka tema ke e kgathile, e shaletse lena bana baka.”

I have played my part. What remains is now in your hands, my children.

Read Mashilo’s biography in his own words

My Biography: Mashilo Reuben Kobe

I was born on the 6th day of July 1945 at a mission called Kraanspoort in the Louis Trichardt district and my parents named me Mashilo Reuben Kobe. My late parents, Ngwako Reuben Jack and Mokgadi Evelyn Kobe were blessed with six children namely Kobe, who passed on, Manyekana Johannes, Sello Elisabeth, Mokgadi, who passed on, Mashilo Reuben and Matome Jacob.

I attended Stefanus Hoff Myer Primary School from Substandard A to Standard 1 from 1955 to 1956, and Ratau Primary School from Standard 2 to Standard 6 from 1957 to 1961. My secondary education was at Emarentia Geldenhys School from Form 1 to Form 3 from 1962 to 1964, and Hwiti High School for Form 4 in 1965. I completed my matric through correspondence.

My tertiary education was completed at Bethesda Normal College, where I did my Higher Primary Teachers Certificate from 1967 to 1968. I graduated with UNISA through correspondence and later acquired a Management Diploma at RAU.

Work experience

I worked at H.C. Boshoff Sending Hospital as a clerk from November 1968 to January 1970, where I was mentored by the late Dr H.C. Boshoff and equipped with skills such as typing, answering phones at the switchboard, filing and working with TB patients. It was there where I met my Rose, whom I later wedded and who became the mother of my children.

In February 1970 I started teaching at Motheong Primary School. I worked there for twelve years. During those years I was elected Secretary of the Town Council of Moganyaka Township, Leeuwfontein.

In 1983 I went to work at V.P. Manthata Senior Secondary School as a senior teacher and Head of Department. In 1992 I was promoted to principal at G.H. France Secondary School. I worked there for one year, as my services were required back at V.P. Manthata as principal.

During my teaching career I was an English examiner for English Paper Two, literature. I started as a sub-examiner, later became a senior sub-examiner and then Chief Examiner, for a total of thirty years. I retired from public service at the end of 2000 at the age of 55.

After retirement I rested for only one year. In 2002 Meridian College knocked at my door requiring my services as an English master. I served them for four years, teaching English Home Language and English First Additional Language and producing 99% and 100% pass rates respectively.

In 2008 I worked as an English facilitator for ELET, supervising and helping teachers to teach English effectively. I also worked for the Transnet Foundation as an English facilitator, and taught English to Grades 11 and 12 at the former Sekhukhune College of Education.

In 2009 I became principal of Happy Day Private School for two years. I helped the school with its Umalusi registration when it was facing deregistration because of poor management. I also improved its Grade 12 results from a pass rate of 27% to 79% in 2010.

Please do not forget to tell people who I am

“Yo a robetsego mo Ke Mashilo kgomo ga dishe o disha basadi [o belegwe ka morago ga basadi ba ba bedi hence Mashilo]. Ge a i theta o re KeNnna Tshehlana ’a ma tshehlela banna, bashimane ba tshehlela boshoboro; Kgang ka le dikgopa ke ya apisha, tokamemo tsa nhlabela mokgoshi, Ke ngwana yo tswang gare ga kgwedi le selemela, Ke Mmirwa wa mahlo a matala yo a reng ge a bina a rweje seta sa phatla ya nare, a u kamela bodiba a re ditlaela di wele ka metseng. Ke Lekopokopo ke a koposela ke metse a fula ke a lemelela ke mohlaka motala ke a noshetsa. Ke ngwana yo a tswang gare ga kgwedi le selemela Ke Mmirwa, Babirwa we! Se bone Mmirwa a le tee wa mo tla nkela, Babirwa ba tletse lehwelere. Ke nna morwa Mokgadi le Ngwako a dinonyana, Mokgadi letapa go lema ka go ja le phala le ba shomi, Mokgadi ‘leho’ se solela baeng le ba feti ka tsela ka go swana.

Nteseng ke i thobalele ka khutso gobane ge e le la ka keno ke lebone. Nteseng ke latele leitsibulo laka Mokoti a maisemane, yo Modimo a kgaotsego leeto la gagwe a sa le tseleng, yo re bego re holofetse gore ke yena yo a tlago go re alafa ka metswako ya sekgowa botsofyading bja rena ka ge a be a ithutile tsa bongaka bja sekgowa. Fela Modimo o be a na le merero ye mengwe ka yena. Ge e le hlabano ke e hlabane, go tseba Mmopi waka gore ke hlabane e bjang. Bo rra weso le bo makgolo bao ba ithobaletsego hlakanetsang, Mashilo ’a bannyana ke yo.

Ya ka tema ke e kgathile, e shaletse lena bana baka; bana ba tswang mpeng ya morwedi ’a Bakwena, ba ana kwena ya lehlaka noka magetleng; bao monna a lefsega a rego ‘ra palelwa ke kwena ka mo badibana maswana, ge e le yeo e nago le madira re tla e reng?’ Ke yoo mokwena a metse a pula ke motlogela diatleng tsa gago, wena Maemo, maemola ba sitsana, wena ngwana wa dikano tsaka, wena lenthlane lentlorontlope, kgaetsedi a Mokgadi letapa o le ma ka go ja le phala le bashomi. Ke ra le wena Tshepo Mogale, setlogolo sa Babirwa le Bakwena. Nnanabo soo! Ga ke nyake go kwa a nhlabela mokgosi ke ithobaletse. Ge a le palela le mo ise Thuding go Mokgadi, khuna mala a gagwe.”

His chosen hymns

  1. Botho bjo ka kang bja Modimo
  2. Lehono re batho re tseba go rapela
  3. Go tla ba bjang ge ke šia lefase lena le bolang
  4. O Mogau wa Modimo
One taught and guided minds. The other cared for and comforted people.

Their greatest legacy is not found only in the positions they held or the institutions they served. It is found in their children, daughters-in-law, grandchildren, former learners, patients, colleagues and all those whose lives were touched by their work and kindness.

As we unveil their tombstones, we do more than mark their final resting places. We acknowledge lives that mattered, sacrifices that shaped us and a love that continues beyond death.

01Faith
02Family
03Education
04Service

Programme for the day

Saturday, 26 September 2026

The official programme begins at South Gate Lodge, followed by the unveiling at Silicon Cemetery. Lunch will be served at 13h00 after guests return to the lodge.

Master of CeremonyMr Mosiwa Khesa
  1. 08h00–10h30

    Memorial Programme

    South Gate Lodge

    • Opening Prayer — Rev. M. S. Maponya
    • Opening and Welcome — Mr Daniel Kobe
    • Tributes, Short Reflections and Remembrances
      • On behalf of the Kobe FamilyMr Jacob Kobe
      • On behalf of the Senne FamilyMr Rolly Nkawe
      • On behalf of the ChurchDr HJ Maluleke
      • On behalf of FriendsMrs Molatelo Makwela & Mr Alex Mokhudu
      • On behalf of the GrandchildrenGrandchildren
      • On behalf of the ChildrenMr Maemo Kobe
    • Scripture Reading — Rev. M. S. Maponya
    • Announcements — Mrs Judy Mmabi
    • Preparation to depart for the cemetery
  2. 10h30–11h00

    Procession to the Cemetery

    South Gate Lodge to Silicon Cemetery

    • Departure from South Gate Lodge
    • Proceed to Silicon Cemetery
  3. 11h00–12h30

    Tombstone Unveiling Ceremony

    Silicon Cemetery

    • Tombstone Unveiling Proceedings — Led by Rev. M. S. Maponya
    • Prayer at the Gravesite — Rev. M. S. Maponya
    • Unveiling of Nnanabo Rose Kobe’s Tombstone
      • Removal of the cloth and laying of flowersMs Obakeng Mokoka and Ms Otshepeng Selebogo
      • Reading of the tombstone inscriptionMiss Tshepiso Kobe
      • Blessing and moment of silenceRev. M. S. Maponya
    • Unveiling of Mashilo Reuben Kobe’s Tombstone
      • Removal of the cloth and laying of flowersMs Sheena Kobe and Mrs Morakana Nelwamondo
      • Reading of the tombstone inscriptionMs Musandiwa Phadagi
      • Blessing and moment of silenceRev. M. S. Maponya
    • Vote of Thanks — Mr Chris Mudau
    • Announcements — Mrs Judy Mmabi
    • Closing Prayer — Rev. M. S. Maponya
  4. 12h30

    Return to South Gate Lodge

    Departure from Silicon Cemetery

  5. 13h00

    Lunch and Refreshments

    South Gate Lodge

This programme is provisional and may be changed or amended at a later stage.

Joining the family

Event details

Everything guests need to know for the day.

01

Date and time

Saturday, 26 September 2026
Programme begins at 08h00. Guests are requested to arrive early.

02

Official programme

South Gate Lodge
Polokwane

03

Unveiling ceremony

Silicon Cemetery
Polokwane

04

Lunch

13h00 at South Gate Lodge
Lunch and refreshments.

Travel arrangements

Venue location

South Gate Lodge, Polokwane

Use the family’s shared location to plan your route and travel time.

Open location in Google Maps
01

Expect heavier traffic

The unveiling falls on a long weekend, when higher traffic volumes are expected on routes into Polokwane. Please allow extra time for your journey.

02

ZCC gathering at Moria

A church gathering will also be taking place at Moria during the same weekend. This may add to congestion on roads leading towards Polokwane and the surrounding areas.

03

Travelling on Friday

Guests travelling on Friday are encouraged to leave earlier than usual to avoid the busiest afternoon traffic and arrive with enough time to settle in.

Please check traffic conditions before departure and plan your route accordingly.

A message from the family

Your presence will mean so much to us.

Your presence is not only an expression of support for our family. It is also an acknowledgement of the lives our parents lived and the relationships they formed during their time with us.

Although Mashilo and Rose are no longer physically present, their teachings, values, love and memories remain deeply rooted in our family. We invite you to remember them, honour their contribution and celebrate the legacy they entrusted to us.

Robalang ka khutšo. May their souls continue to rest in eternal peace.